What more could I want? Though I didn’t explicitly think about this book as an adult entering (and leaving) relationships, its message stayed with me. I couldn’t imagine anything better than living alone with my pets. My mother bought me a copy of Princess Smartypants when I was a girl and I read it cover to cover more times than I can count. But if horsewomen can feel as though they have a true partnership with their horse, one that steadies them when romantic relationships don’t stack up, where do they fit in all of this? Peggy Orenstein calls this ending “payback” in her book, Cinderella Ate My Daughter, reasoning that winding up alone acts as a punishment for stepping out of line. Like Princess Smartypants, Princess Merida does not want to get married and takes her fate into her own hands, eventually living happily ever after without a husband in sight. Similarly, Brave shows a courageous and independent young princess blissfully free to gallop around on her horse, climb and shoot, jump and soar, until the queen pushes for her to marry. The story ends on Princess Smartypants living happily ever after with her animals. The problem is swiftly solved when she simply turns him into a frog, serving as a warning to the other suitors. To deter suitors asking for her hand she sets up a series of impossible tasks-and this works until one particular prince succeeds at them all. But all she wants to do is live in her castle with her pets and do as she pleases. Princess Smartypants tells the story of young princess who is so pretty and rich that suitors are lining up to marry her. Instead they are perfectly content living alone with their animals.
While Princess Smartypants and Brave are princess stories (or anti-princess stories), they contain many elements of cowgirl narratives: a girl and her horse, independence, grit, courage. In recent Disney Pixar film Brave and Babette Cole children’s book Princess Smartypants-two stories that I would argue are cowgirl narratives-have heroines who actively reject romance in favor of life with their animals. In cowgirl narratives, romantic relationships are rarely something the female protagonist actively chases rather she is often chasing the ways of her heart and love happens to come along.
When women talk about horses, they often speak of freedom and power, of connectivity and understanding, of trust-often using the same language we use when we discuss intimate relationships with humans. Growing up in 4-H, I heard the joke often: girls would rather give up boys than our ponies.
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